Showing posts with label Cindy Beck. Show all posts
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02 September 2011

Overcoming the Natural Man

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The key ingredient in our holding on to the natural man or woman in us is selfishness.

Read the following comment made by Elder Neal A. Maxwell in his October 1990 conference talk, Put Off the Natural Man and Come Off Conqueror:
"Stubborn selfishness leads otherwise good people to fight over herds, patches of sand, and strippings of milk. All this results from what the Lord calls coveting “the drop,” while neglecting the “more weighty matters.” (D&C 117:8.) Myopic selfishness magnifies a mess of pottage and makes thirty pieces of silver look like a treasure trove. In our intense acquisitiveness, we forget Him who once said, “What is property unto me?” (D&C 117:4.)
"Such is the scope of putting off the burdensome natural man who is naturally selfish. (See Mosiah 3:19.) So much of our fatigue, brothers and sisters, in fact, comes from carrying that needless load. This heaviness of the natural man prevents us from doing our Christian calisthenics; so we end up too swollen with selfishness to pass through the narrow needle’s eye.
"Unchecked selfishness thus stubbornly blocks the way for developing all of the divine qualities: love, mercy, patience, long-suffering, kindness, graciousness, goodness, and gentleness.
"Restoration scriptures tell us much more about how we can really be forgiven through the atonement of Christ by means of which, finally, “mercy … overpowereth justice.” (Alma 34:15.) We can have real and justified hope for the future—enough hope to develop the faith necessary to both put off the natural man and to strive to become more saintly.
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19 August 2011

Artful Friday

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To see the Summer Sky
Is Poetry, though never in a Book it lie -
True Poems flee.
~Emily Dickinson

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Ahhh. The beautiful days of summer are getting shorter. School starts in a few days and days of going to the pool are in the past, until next year.

It's a beautiful Friday, and for all of us who've enjoyed being outdoors (not that it's ending anytime soon), harvest will start soon. But before it's gone, let's hear it for summer in this beautiful short poem by Callie Taggart:

Taste Summer 
Taste the summer sea;
its cool luscious juice will
linger on your tongue.
 
Taste the summer air,
and smear the raw sun
on top of your tanned skin.
 
Taste a summer rain;
whisper in its singing mists as the
honey spray moistens your face.
 
Taste the summer sky;
let the pastel blue cream
drip freely down your chin.
 
Taste a summer day.
It will be sweet and delicious
until, finally, it is gone.
 
How's your summer going? Are you ready to enter the next season in life? Whether I like it or not, I think I am. Have a great weekend.
 
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05 August 2011

Bad Hair Days

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Janice Kapp Perry wrote the following poem and put it to music.


Tender Mercies of the Lord

1. Tender mercies of the Lord
Come in quiet ways,
Not by mere coincidence,
But by heaven’s grace.
As we choose to follow Him
With full heart and soul,
We become His chosen ones
And tender mercies flow.

2. Tender mercies of the Lord
Come in times of need.
Gifts of faith and confidence
Fill us as we plead.
Words of guidance, hope, and peace
Help us feel God’s love.
By our faith, His mercies come
Like manna from above.

3. Tender mercies of the Lord
Come as we repent.
Sweet forgiveness, peace of mind
Follow, heaven-sent.
Faithfulness, obedience
Help us to discern.
Blessings sweet and personal
For which our spirits yearn.

4. Tender mercies of the Lord
Comfort us and guide.
In His time and in His way,
We receive His light.
As we yield our will to His,
Blessings freely flow.
We partake of love divine
Thru mercies He bestows.
 
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22 July 2011

Fun Times

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Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live
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A few weeks ago we spent a week in Alaska, as part of a cruise. In one of our excursions our guide gave us some advice that I'd like to share with you here.

Advice from an Alaskan Bear

Live Large
When Life Gets Hairy, Grin and Bear It
Live with the Seasons
Take Good Long Naps, and
Always Look After Your Honey.

It's so simple, to just smile when things don't go your way, enjoy the moments each season brings, take care of your body and take care of your partner. It's a straight forward philosophy.

What are your thoughts on the matter? Agree or disagree?

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01 July 2011

Solutions for Sticky Situations

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Today's blog is a courtesy of Cami Checketts.

Book Donations for CAPSA and CFSC

When my boys are having a hard day I read them a funny book. When I'm feeling depressed I reach for a favorite novel. When we just need a break from reality we turn to books.

What if you were experiencing the toughest time of your life? Would you want to escape into a fantastic suspense or intriguing paranormal novel? Would you want to hold your child on your lap and laugh, cry, or teach them with a book?

CAPSA (Community Abuse Prevention Services Agency) and CFSC (Child and Family Support Center) help families through nightmarish experiences the rest of can't even imagine or understand.

The other night I sat thinking about the amazing people who run these agencies and wondering how I could help more. The families always need the basics: food, shelter, clothing, money. I know we all try to donate when we can. But it hit me that it would be very nice to provide these mothers, fathers, and children with books. Books might not be necessary for survival but they can comfort, teach, entertain, inspire, and bond.

How can you help?

Donate new or gently used books (they would appreciate children's, middle grade, young adult, and adult fiction and nonfiction) to one of these fabulous organizations or to your local family support or crisis center. If you want to donate to CFSC or CAPSA, email me camichecketts@yahoo.com. I can take the books in for you or give you the contact info you need.
Whether you donate to CFSC, CAPSA, or your local organization, post a comment on this blog and let us know how many books you donated. I'll add the number to the counter on the right.

Please help spread the word and share the number of donated books. I can't wait to see that number grow.

Thanks for caring about the children,
Cami

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17 June 2011

Making Plans

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Sometimes on a Friday, I just like to share a folk tale. This one is from ancient China, and it’s called Mend the Fold After the Sheep are Lost. (Shouldn’t it be ‘before’ they’re lost? I’m just saying).
“There once was a shepherd. One day he was checking his flock when he noticed a sheep was missing. Seeing that the gate was secured, he began to inspect the fence surrounding the pasture with help from his neighbor. In one of the corners sure enough he found a hole and a fresh pair of wolf prints.
 
“His neighbor worriedly warned him to fix the hole or else the wolves would come again. The shepherd upon hearing this advice thought, ‘The sheep has already been lost, what use is fixing the fence?’ With that he pushed the thought of wolves and fences to the back of his mind. The next day, whilst counting his sheep he found another missing, with fresh paw prints around the same hole in the fences.
 
“He was regretful for his foolishness and with the help of his neighbor fixed the fence, and hasn't lost another sheep.
 
“Often when one meets misfortune he can only learn from the experience and move on. What is important is that we should learn from our mistakes and immediately rectify the problem to avoid future loss.”

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03 June 2011

Try and Try Again

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Success: Definition
1. achievement of intention: the achievement of something planned or attempted

2. attainment of fame, wealth, or power: impressive achievement, especially the attainment of fame, wealth, or power
3. something that turns out well: something that turns out as planned or intended
(Source: Encarta® World English Dictionary[North American Edition])

That seems to be the world’s definition of success. Let’s hear it for the religious side. From a July 1973 Ensign article, Success—A Journey or a Destination?, President Hartman Rector Jr of the Seventy has said:
“The Lord doesn’t seem to measure success in terms of attainment of position or power or wealth. A prophet in the Book of Mormon (where, by the way, the most succinct and unvarnished truths can be found) said, 'But behold, all things have been done in the wisdom of him who knoweth all things. Adam fell that men might be; and men are, that they might have joy.' (2 Ne. 2:24–25.) If man is that he might have joy, then success to the Lord must include the attainment of real joy. On the basis of this definition, then, no one is really successful who is not happy.
“If this be the Lord’s definition, then there is precious little success in this world. Success in its practical application seems to be more a state of mind than anything else. Obviously, many people never make it because they are ungrateful. They are not thankful for what they have; therefore, they are unhappy and thus are not successful. I have never seen a happy person who was not thankful for what he had, to paraphrase the Prophet Joseph Smith, who stated that 'doubt and faith cannot exist in the same person at the same time.' (6th Lecture on Faith.) It is also doubtful that success and unhappiness can exist in the same person at the same time.”
In either case,  achievement of a goal seems to bring success, right? So if we make it to the celestial kingdom to show our Father obedience, wouldn’t that make us successful?

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20 May 2011

Get Creative

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“Creativity is inventing, experimenting, growing, taking risks, breaking rules, making mistakes, and having fun.”
~ Mary Lou Cook

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I’ve heard ‘she’s so creative’ many times. Other times someone would say ‘I don’t have a creative bone in my body.’ Creativity is a driving force in some of us. Why more people aren’t creative is a mystery.

Imagination is the beginning of creation. You imagine what you desire, you will what you imagine and at last you create what you will.” ~George Bernard Shaw

Elder Robert D. Hales said the following in his article Every Good Gift, published in an August 1983 New Era:
“To many, the word creativity simply refers to the cultural, performing, or visual arts. This is a very limiting definition. There are endless ways of applying creative reasoning. …
Too often, however, those who possess great talents are selfish and do not use their gifts for the benefit of others. And more importantly, they do not acknowledge that these gifts are God-given. If we properly understood the source of our creative talents, there would be no application of writing, dancing, music, or photography for Satan’s purposes. The prophet Moroni wisely counsels us about using our talents for evil. He exhorts us to “come unto Christ, and lay hold upon every good gift, and touch not the evil gift, nor the unclean thing” (Moroni 10:30).”

We’re all children of a loving Heavenly Father. We have purpose and talents. I believe that we all came with our own box of individual talents. We should invest time in finding out which ones we have hidden.
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09 May 2011

Offering Comfort

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“For when a man speaketh by the power of the Holy Ghost the power of the Holy Ghost carrieth it unto the hearts of the children of men”
2 Nephi 33:1


We sometimes wonder how it feels to really ‘hear’ the voice of the Holy Ghost. President Boyd K. Packer of the Quorum of the Twelve gave us an ideal understanding of that moment in his 1991 talk ‘How Does the Spirit Speak to Us? He said:
“We do not have the words—even the scriptures do not have the words—which perfectly describe the Spirit. The scriptures usually use the word voice. That does not exactly fit—it does, but it doesn’t. These very delicate, fine spiritual communications are not seen with our eyes nor heard with our ears; it is a voice that one feels more than hears.
When we experience a spiritual communication, we are wont to say within ourselves, “This is it. Now I understand.” That is what is meant by those words in the revelations. Nephi explained it this way:
“Angels speak by the power of the Holy Ghost; wherefore, they speak the words of Christ. Wherefore, I said unto you, feast upon the words of Christ; for behold, the words of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do” (2 Nephi 32:3)"

A spiritual communication should be a very important part of our day. It should be something we actively pursue. We came from Heavenly parents, it’s in us to be able to find that communication that saves spiritually.
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29 April 2011

A Fairy Tale Life

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Since we have a tall tale by Cindy Beck, I thought I could just bring a cute joke told by Elder M. Russell Ballard to a group of young adults. It goes like this:
"A judge was interviewing a woman regarding her pending divorce and asked:

“What are the grounds for your divorce?”

“About four acres with a nice little home in the middle of the property with a little stream running by.”

“No,” he said, “I mean what is the foundation of this case?”
“It is made of concrete, brick, and mortar,” she responded.

“I mean,” he continued, “what are your relations like?”

She answered that they were fine. “I have an aunt and uncle living here in town as do my husband’s parents.”

He said, “No, do you have a real grudge?”

“No,” she replied, “we have a two-car carport and have never really needed a garage.”

“Please,” he tried again, “is there any infidelity in your marriage?”

“Yes, both my son and daughter have hi-fi sets. We don’t necessarily like the music, but the answer to your question is yes.”

“No. Does your husband ever beat you up?”

“Yes,” she responded, “about twice a week he gets up earlier than I do.”

Finally the judge asked, “Why do you want a divorce?”

“Oh, I don’t want a divorce. I’ve never wanted a divorce. My husband does. He says that he can’t seem to communicate with me.”
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15 April 2011

Just Do it

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"Any excuse for non-performance, no matter how valid, weakens character." Spencer W. Kimball
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President Kimball encouraged us to be active, to do what’s right, to keep journals, plant gardens, do missionary work, work on our genealogy, be faithful to our spouses, enjoy family life and respect each other.
There are so many activities we could be involved in, the list above I took from just one talk President Kimball gave back in May of 1978, ‘The True Way of Life and Salvation.'
All we need to do is make a decision about what we want to do with our lives and just go for it. If a prophet of the Lord in these last days tells us that we should plant a garden or keep a journal, shouldn’t we do it? There may be skeptics who probably think we don’t have to do everything is asked of us in the scriptures. Or that we may be given a few stripes and then we'll be saved in the Kingdom of Heaven with our Father.
I wonder how many of us are willing to gamble their eternal lives on an assumption.
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01 April 2011

Good Times

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I’m going to tell a tale today.

I’ve read this old Chinese tale with two different endings, so I’ll give you both, and comment on them.
"There once was a wealthy man, who lived in a nice, comfortable mansion with many rooms. The rich man had many children, who were the joy of his life. They wanted for nothing, since he’d provided for everything their hearts desired."

"One day, while he was away, the mansion caught fire. The children were inside, and didn’t realize the danger they were in. Just then their father showed up at the door, and called to them from outside, telling them that the house was on fire and pleading for them to come out or they could die. The children didn’t know what ‘fire’ or ‘die’ meant, so they went on playing.

First ending: they perished in the fire. In our society we act in the same way as this father, we give our children all that we possibly can, sometimes both parents working to have enough to pay the bills. We shelter our children from all that’s evil in the world in such way that they don’t know what or where the dangers are. Dying in the fire means that the things of the world will bring us some kind of death: physical or spiritual, all we have to do is watch the news.

Second ending: the father promised his children even more presents and they were finally lured out of the burning house. Do we do this to our children, promising or giving them plenty of material possessions? Most of the time children don’t need much to grow up physically, mentally and emotionally balanced.

Whichever way we want to see this tale, the father loved his children very much. Was he overindulgent or just loving?

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18 March 2011

Green Delight

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We cannot afford to neglect this heaven-inspired program. It can bring spiritual growth to each member of the family, helping him or her to withstand the temptations which are everywhere. The lessons learned in the home are those that last the longest.”
President Monson

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints has just updated their Family Home Evening site.

There you can find the Resource book, quick tips and ideas, lessons by topic, activities, videos, music, art work and tips for teaching a lesson.

There are also inspired accounts from people who’ve been doing their family night, and how it’s affected their lives.

The link is here. Make good use of it.

We hope you enjoy your weekend, and start shopping for garden bargains.

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04 March 2011

Inspiration

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I liked this so much I thought I’d share it here with all of you. Justine, at Segullah posted it. It's cute:


THE DODGE

-I comes into the bedroom crying.

-I: “-J hit me!”

Justine: “Why’d she hit you?”

-I: “Just because I wouldn’t answer her question! I wouldn’t answer her so she whacked me! It’s not fair! She needs a punishment, right?”

Justine: “So, what’s -J going to say if we ask her?”

-I: “I don’t know. I just wouldn’t answer her mean, nasty question, so she hit me!”

Justine: “What did -J ask you?”

Long pause.

Justine: “-I, what did -J ask you?”

-I: “Well, she asked me why I spit at her.”



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21 February 2011

Personal Touch

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In today's Personal Touch interview Rebecca Cressman chats with Betty. Betty Pearson connects thousands of mothers of LDS missionaries all around the world. She is the creator and Listowner of email groups for LDS Missionary and Military Moms helping women support and learn from each other while their children serve away from home. She and her husband, Karl, have 7 children. Six of the seven children, including two daughters, have all served missions. One of her sons is currently serving in Japan and their youngest is a senior in high school and plans to serve too. Betty is from Bountiful, Utah and attended the University of Utah studying Music Education. She teaches private cello lessons, loves gardening, and freezes/dehydrates/bottles everything she can. Betty has served in many different church callings over the years from teaching Primary to serving in Primary, Relief Society, and Stake YW Presidencies. Betty and Karl are currently ward Family History Consultants.


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Now ye may suppose that this is a foolishness in me; but behold I say unto you, that by small and simple things are great things brought to pass; and small means in many instances doth
confound the wise.   
Alma 37:6

At the website above the moms have a 'Notable Quote' page. I found one that I really liked, and decided to copy it here:

JRR Tolkien and Alma 

MM, Kim (Utah) sent the following quote to us:

J.R.R Tolkien in the Fellowship of the Ring: "The road must be trod, but it will be very hard. And neither strength nor wisdom will carry us far upon it. This quest may be attempted by the weak with as much hope as the strong. Yet it is oft the course of deeds that move the wheels of the world: Small hands do them because they must, while the eyes of the great are elsewhere."

Her missionary made the following comment about the quote:

"Mom, I love this! We are constantly tracting out ministers and pastors who say we are too young to really know about Christ and proclaim Christianity.

This quote is a reminder to the protestant world that all through the Old Testament God used weak things against strong things to show his power.... AND HE STILL DOES!! I also like that it refers to our necessity to ALWAYS push ourselves, ALWAYS lean on the Lord and ALWAYS rely on the spirit to do our teaching, very awesome!!"

Kim: "Later after I shared this quote with an elder here in our stake he said it made him think of Alma 37:6, by small and simple means the efforts of these young elders and sisters really can "confound" the wise and help the kingdom roll forth!"

Kim (source: here)
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04 February 2011

Surprising Sweetness

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“A true Mormon home is one in which if Christ should chance to enter, he would be pleased to linger and to rest.” Pres. David O. McKay

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When I saw today’s newsletter I realized that I should mention families. I thought Cindy Beck’s story was so sweet, it took me back 15 or 16 years ago, when my boy was just a toddler. The feeling I had while I read it was exquisite and unforgettable.

I can only say that our families are, right now at these perilous times, our most precious treasures. Our commitment should be to the raising and watching over those special spirits that the Lord has sent our way.

Here’s an excerpt from a talk given by President Thomas S. Monson:

“The family, as we have traditionally known it, is such a refuge of safety. 'The home is the basis of a righteous life and no other instrumentality can take its place or fulfill its essential functions.' Actually, a home is much more than a house. A house is built of lumber, brick, and stone. A home is made of love, sacrifice, and respect. A house can be a home, and a home can be a heaven when it shelters a family. When true values and basic virtues undergird the families of society, hope will conquer despair, and faith will triumph over doubt.”

We should be doing all that’s in our power to do what the General Authorities have been counseling us to do for years: family prayer, family night, scripture study, and anything else that you think will keep us safe. We need to recommit ourselves daily to keep our families safe.

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14 January 2011

Using Your Head

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I find that reading the scriptures at the beginning of the day helps me stay in focus and fixed on doing what’s right. Do I do it faithfully? I have to say no. However, it’s something that I always strive to do.

Is this something that you struggle with?

Let me share a quote I found. It’s from Bruce T. Harper:
“Perhaps we were not much different from many other families in the Church when it came to studying the scriptures. …Finally, we decided to dedicate ourselves to gaining a habit of scripture reading. To help us in achieving this goal, we adopted an approach presented by Carvel Whiting, our stake Sunday school president.
“His method was simple. He made the habit of reading something each day the primary objective of his program. The goal was to establish an attitude, to raise the scriptures in our awareness. He did not specify how much we should study each day, nor did he suggest that we study in a specific way.

“Using this simple approach, we could read a few verses or ten pages on any given day. We could read through the scriptures sequentially, or we could study topics. … We could even set a secondary goal to read a chapter a day (or half an hour, or five pages), but if we did not always meet that secondary goal, we were still having success and maintaining our scripture study habit as long as we read even one verse during the day.”
I usually try to read during the week the assignment for the following Sunday school lesson. But I like the idea of reading non-sequentially. If following a structured reading schedule is not something that appeals to you, skipping around is a good alternative.

I did something interesting today. I’ve mentioned before that we’re going through a remodel. To save money, we committed ourselves to doing all the painting in the house. So I’m painting and thought ‘it’s too quiet in here,’ then I thought I could listen to some music, since the room right now doesn’t have a TV set. Just then the idea came to me that I could listen to the latest Ensign while I paint the walls. So I put on my earphones and plugged them into my Smartphone which has the Mormon Channel app and I just listened to the January Ensign’s articles being read to me. I took advantage of resources at hand and I got to do two things at the same time.

If we have the technology, we should use it.

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31 December 2010

It's All About You

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Ring out the old, ring in the new,
Ring, happy bells, across the snow:
The year is going, let him go;
Ring out the false, ring in the true.
Alfred, Lord Tennyson. Hymns #215

Today is the last day of the year 2010.

What are your expectations for the New Year? Are you going through a good time in your life? Are you going through trials? I believe we all do both, just in different ways.

I’d like to share some quotes, sayings, or proverbs that can be used to begin a new phase in our lives:

The Old Year has gone. Let the dead past bury its own dead. The New Year has taken possession of the clock of time. All hail the duties and possibilities of the coming twelve months! ~Edward Payson Powell

Many people look forward to the new year for a new start on old habits. ~Author Unknown

If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow. - Chinese Proverb

Year's end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, with all the wisdom that experience can instill in us. ~Hal Borland

Good resolutions are simply checks that men draw on a bank where they have no account. ~Oscar Wilde

Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man. ~Benjamin Franklin

Don't speak unless you can improve on the silence. - Spanish Proverb

A New Year's resolution is something that goes in one year and out the other. ~Author Unknown

No matter how far you have gone on a wrong road, turn back. - Turkish Proverb

For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning.
~T.S. Eliot, "Little Gidding"

We wish all of you a wonderful New Year. Best wishes from the Neighborhood!
 
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17 December 2010

Mixing It Up


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Taken from the December 2009 New Era Magazine
  We have discussed most of the topics related to Christmas so far. Let’s mention the Wise Men.

One mention found in the Bible about them is in the book of Daniel. In Babylon, the king’s advisors were called such: “Then came in all the king’s wise men,…” (Daniel 5:8)

At the time of Jesus’ birth, the scriptures say: “Now when Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judæa in the days of Herod the king, behold, there came wise men from the east to Jerusalem,” (Matthew 2:1)

Don’t you wonder about them? How many there were, or how much did they know, or what their motives were?

By the time they reached Jerusalem, Jesus had already been born, and his parents had found a place to stay (a house). The star had been shining since the night of His birth, which they saw. They started their journey right away. But how long did it take them to reach their destination?

Since they didn’t know where the babe resided, after they arrived at Jerusalem they started asking questions, which promptly brought king Herod’s attention on them.

“Saying, Where is he that is born King of the Jews? for we have seen his star in the east, and are come to worship him.” (Matthew 2:2)

What was their purpose? Up until their arrival, the only other witnesses of Christ’s birth had been the shepherds. But they were the simple and unlearned. The Wise Men were scholars who knew of the prophecies about the birth, and knew of Jesus’ part in the plan of happiness.

The shepherds were told by angels of the Divine birth. The Wise Men followed a star. Maybe they were supposed to see firsthand the coming to pass of the prophecies long foretold. What a privilege!

They also brought presents, and kingly presents they were:

Gold: the present reserved for kings. The Wise Men recognized Jesus as the Son of a King, even the King of Kings.

Frankincense: a perfume that was used at the time to worship deity. It’s saying that Jesus is the Son of God.

Myrrh: at the time, this perfume was used to prepare bodies for burial. The Wise Men knew of Jesus’ eternal sacrifice and brought myrrh to prepare Him for His time of sorrow.

Notice that Herod tried to ‘help’ the Wise Men by telling them where the King of the Jews was supposed to be born: Bethlehem, and sent them that way, asking in return to come back and tell him where the baby was, so he could go and worship himself. They were warned in a dream to do otherwise, and left by another way.

What an incredible experience! How many people can say that they saw the Son of God as a baby, knowing Who He was. Very few indeed. How many heavenly portents did happen around that time? We should be wise enough to recognize portents and follow the star that’s always showing the way back to our Savior, Jesus Christ the Son of God.

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03 December 2010

Holiday Preparations

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It is interesting to find out how other cultures celebrate Christmas. Even here, in the United States, people celebrate in different ways. How, you say? Well, I’ve seen Christmas specials from around the country, and they’ve portrayed the uniqueness of each place. For example, there’s no way boats can be decorated and paraded around canals here in Utah as they do in Florida. And have you seen the beauty in a lighted cactus or palm tree, as opposed to a spruce or fir? Our world is amazing, and we can find beauty in what’s different and how different people choose to worship the Savior.

Let me share traditions in other parts of the world. Even though I won’t be able to spotlight all, I’ll give you the links to find them.

In Africa: “Christmas is a summer holiday. In December, the southern summer brings glorious days of sunshine that carry an irresistible invitation to the beaches, the rivers, and the shaded mountain slopes. Schools are closed, and camping is the order of the day. In the cities and towns carolers make their rounds on Christmas Eve. Church services are held on Christmas morning. Christmas Eve celebrations in larger centers include "Carols by Candlelight" and special screen and floor shows. Homes are decorated with pine branches, and all have the decorated Christmas fir in a corner, with presents for the children around. At bedtime on Christmas Eve, children may also hang up their stockings for presents from Father Christmas. Many people have a Christmas dinner in the open-air. For many more, it is the traditional dinner of either turkey, roast beef, mince pies, or suckling pig, yellow rice with raisins, vegetables, and plum pudding, crackers, paper hats, and all.”                                              (From http://www.santas.net/aroundtheworld.htm)  

In Argentina: since I come from there, I can tell you how it’s done. Christmas is a summer holiday, so there’s no snow. Most people are Catholic and they attend Midnight mass. Families get together to have Christmas Eve (Nochebuena) dinner. It includes all kinds of meats, salads, mince pies, breads, puddings, alcoholic fruit punch, and cakes. There are also bowls with fruits, nuts and cheeses. After dinner, people go to wish good tidings to friends, neighbors and family. There are fireworks and dances out in the open. At homes, the traditional fir tree is decorated, but the most important decoration is the crèche (pesebre). I remember visiting a great-aunt as a child, and her nativity was impressive: it went from floor to ceiling, very elaborate. Presents are not given until January 6, when the Magi come to visit children. The children leave their shoes out the night before and on that morning they find presents left on the shoes by the Magi.


In Bethlehem: “From a few days before 25th December, the town is decorated with flags and other items of adornment. Streets are strung with Christmas lights. A Christmas market comes up and Christmas plays are performed. A cross is painted on the doors of every Christian home and Nativity scenes are displayed in every household. On Christmas Eve, annual Christmas processions are taken out. Residents of the town as well as tourists crowd the doorways and the roof of the Basilica to get a view of the parade. Galloping horsemen and police mounted on Arabian horses lead the procession, followed by a man riding over a black steed and carrying a cross. After him come the churchmen and government officials. The procession quietly enters the doors and puts an ancient effigy of the Holy Child in the Church. The visitors are then taken through winding stairs leading to a grotto where a silver star marks the site of the birth of Jesus."                                                 
 (From http://www.theholidayspot.com/christmas/worldxmas/)


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In India: “Christians in India decorate banana or mango trees. They also light small oil-burning lamps as Christmas decorations and fill their churches with red flowers. They give presents to family members and baksheesh, or charity, to the poor people.”
(From http://www.santas.net/aroundtheworld.htm)

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In Italy: “The Christmas season in Italy goes for three weeks, starting 8 days before Christmas known as the Novena. In the week before Christmas children go from house to house dressed as shepherds, playing pipes, singing and reciting Christmas poems. They are given money to buy presents. A strict feast is observed for 24 hours before Christmas Eve, and is followed by a celebration meal, in which a light Milanese cake called panettone features as well as chocolate. By twilight, candles are lighted around the family crib known as the Presepio, prayers are said, and children recite poems. At noon on Christmas Day the pope gives his blessing to crowds gathered in the huge Vatican square. In Italy the children wait until Epiphany, January 6, for their presents. According to tradition, the presents are delivered by a kind ugly witch called Befana on a broomstick. It was said that she was told by the three kings that the baby Jesus was born, she was busy and delayed visiting the baby. She missed the Star, lost her way and has been flying around ever since, leaving presents at every house with children in case he is there.”
 (From http://www.santas.net/aroundtheworld.html)


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In Japan: “Only 1 per cent of Japanese people believe in Christ. Even so, most Japanese people decorate their stores and homes with evergreens during Christmas. They enjoy giving each other gifts, and this is the part they celebrate. They have a Buddhist monk called Hotei-osho who acts like Santa Claus. He brings presents to each house and leaves them for the children. Some think he has eyes in the back of his head, so children try to behave like he is nearby. Among the Christian Japanese Christmas is not a day for the family. They do not have turkey or plum pudding, rather than that the day is spent doing nice things for others especially those who are sick in hospitals.”
 (From http://www.santas.net/aroundtheworld.htm)


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In Turkey: I decided to add this one, because while researching I found there’s some controversy. Considering that the idea of Santa Claus came from a city that is now in this country (Myra), I thought it should be interesting to find out more. And find out I did.

“Turkey is a Moslem country. Although there are Catholic and Jewish minorities, most Turks are Moslems. The Turkish minorities live in peace with Turkish Moslems and have their own places of worship. You will find churches and synagogues all over Istanbul. For the Moslems, December 24th is not a date that commemorates Jesus' birth. They do have Jesus at their Koran (Moslems' Holy book) but the most important figure in their religion is Mohammed the prophet. At the end of the year, Istanbul will be decorated with lights all over its main streets, but this is done to commemorate the new year.”                                                                                      
  (From http://www.business-with-turkey.com/tourist-guide/xmase.shtml)

However you choose to celebrate Christmas, I’m sure it is a time to build up memories for you and your family. And if you’d like to contribute your thoughts or traditions, send a comment our way.

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