Showing posts with label Russ Beck. Show all posts
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29 August 2011

There's Sunshine in My Soul

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Enjoy more fully the sunlight.
President Gordon B. Hinckley

Coming from a Prophet, the following excerpt will help us be more positive about the things that are important. President Hinckley has said in his Words of a Prophet: The Spirit of Optimism:
"There never was a greater time in the history of the world to live upon the earth than this. How grateful every one of us ought to feel for being alive in this wonderful time with all the marvelous blessings we have. … And on top of all that is the Restoration of the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ with all of the keys and authority, with all the gifts and blessings, with all the organization and doctrine of all previous dispensations all brought into one. And you and I are partakers of that marvelous restoration (from Church News, Aug. 14, 1999, 7)."
So tell us are you a half-empty or half-full glass kind of person?

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25 July 2011

Preparing for the Journey

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pi·o·neer (p-nîr)
n.
2b: one of the first to settle in a territory

From the Merriam Webster online dictionary

A lot of members of the Church have ancestors that crossed the plains in companies, pulling handcarts or riding in wagons. But not all members do.
So, what about the rest of us? If you're like me, and you were the first members in your area when it was open to preach the gospel, then you're a pioneer in your own right.
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf has said the following in his talk We All Share Pioneer Legacy:
"Pioneers of an earlier era provide a heritage of faith, courage, and sacrifice for all of us, according to prophets and apostles who lead the Church today. But they are quick to add that there are many modern pioneers who continue the legacy by spreading the gospel throughout the world. In a Church that has more than 14 million members from various backgrounds and origins, pioneer heritage is both a gift from the past and a unifying force for the future."
Let's share the following video, also part of President Uchtordf's talk:



So tell us your own pioneer story, if you'd like to share it with us.

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27 June 2011

True Happiness

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There are no ordinary people. You have never talked to a mere mortal. … It is immortals whom we joke with, work with, marry, snub, and exploit”
C.S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory and Other Addresses [1980]
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We are supposed to be embarked in a good cause and doing good at all times, right?

It is so easy to get distracted by circumstances, other people, or extra drama in our lives. Some of us don’t need extra drama, and some of us are a walking example of drama.  We like the attention people other than our spouse give us and we think we’re madly in love and want to start our lives anew. Is that right? Was there abuse or cheating from the ‘guilty’ party? Or was it all in our heads?

Here’s a quotation from a talk given by Elder Neal A. Maxwell, The Pathway to Discipleship, 1998:

“As striving disciples, you and I must strategically focus on the interaction of immortal individuals and immortal principles as applied to life’s changing tactical situations. It is vital, therefore, for you and for me, in the words of Jacob, to see things ‘as they really are’ and things ‘as they really will be’ (Jacob 4:13). It’s interesting that those who have eyes single to the glory of God are those who see the most of reality.

“But this road of discipleship which we are considering here is not easy. It requires sturdy, all-weather souls who are constant in every season of life and who are not easily stalled or thrown off course. Likewise, even with this accurate view of the mortal experience we still need time and the wise use of our moral agency. We still need God’s long-suffering to help us. We need all of these combined in order to gain experience in life. Amid this ongoing process, you and I can actually come to know for ourselves, like Alma of old, who ‘fasted and prayed many days that I might know ‘ that these immortal principles are true (Alma 5:46).”

So, as ballplayers say, we need to keep our eyes on the ball, and don’t lose track of what’s really important. We have our agency to decide on what’s important, no one else can make that decision for us. Eternal happiness with those we love is so much more important than the vain and short-lived things of the world.

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30 May 2011

Sticking It Out

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Sometimes something (anything) will bring up to mind a well of memories and emotions. It could be a smell, a sight or sound. In the following story, Elder L. Tom Perry of the Quorum of the Twelve is reminiscing about an outing with his young son, when they went to a baseball game. Years later, Elder Perry’s son gifted him with a signed bat. This story is taken from Making Memories, printed in the Ensign, August 1993:

"We arrived home at 2:30 A.M. I wasn’t at my best in the meetings the following day, but I had a lasting memory to cherish. Now a piece of wood, a baseball bat, stands in the corner of my office to remind me of a father-son relationship filled with so many great memories.
"I remember taking a little child from his mother’s arms and carrying him to the front of the congregation of Saints and there giving him a name and a father’s blessing. …. I remember how important it was on his eighth birthday when I could take him into the waters of baptism and then bring him out, again exercising the priesthood, allowing me to confirm him a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Four years later came another memory, for then I was serving as a member of the bishopric, and I was empowered to use my priesthood to place my hands on his head and confer the Aaronic Priesthood upon him and ordain him to the office of a deacon.
"So it went, on through the priesthood offices of teacher and priest. He reached the great age of nineteen, and now I found myself holding the office of a stake president. I was now able to assign myself to confer the Melchizedek Priesthood upon my son and ordain him to the office of an elder. Then came the thrill of setting him apart as a full-time missionary and sending him off to Japan to serve the Lord.
"Shortly after he returned from a successful mission, I was called to be a General Authority. With that call, the sealing power was conferred, and some five years later my son and a beautiful young lady were kneeling before me in the holy temple, and I was sealing them together as husband and wife for time and for all eternity.
"It doesn’t stop there. The two of them were soon on their way east to New Haven, Connecticut, to attend school. One night I received a telephone call from my son. He said, 'Dad, how fast can you make it to New Haven?' I asked him what the problem was. He said, 'No problem. I’m being called into the bishopric on Sunday, and I want you to ordain me to the office of high priest.' So I went to New Haven to make another unique memory.
"A few years later I returned from a stake conference assignment and received another telephone call. My son told me, 'Elder Marvin J. Ashton of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles has just called me to be a stake president. He knows our history. He said he would not dare put his hands on my head to set me apart to the new office. Can you drive to Provo and set me apart?' What great memories of a father-son relationship this piece of wood holds for me!”

Memories are worth making and having. We should spend our time making lasting memories. We wish you a good time with your family on this Memorial Day.
As always we welcome your comments.

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25 April 2011

Battling Depression

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I didn't know my mother had it. I think a lot of women don't know their mothers had it; that's the sad thing about depression. You know, you don't function anymore. You shut down.
You feel like you are in a void.
~Marie Osmond


Sometimes we may be depressed, and we don't even know it. I feel it in the winter months, it's known as SAD (seasonal affective disorder). I think I have it because I was born in a temperate climate and was transplanted to an area that has cold and snow six months out of the year. I feel the sadness settling in, and there's nothing I can do about it, until spring comes. Exercise helps a lot and I'm thankful for a modern luxury like a treadmill.

In the April 2002 Ensign, Shanna Ghaznavi wrote the article "Rising Above the Blues." The following is a short excerpt from it:
"Some of the symptoms of depression are persistent sadness, lack of energy, and suicidal thoughts. You might not enjoy many of the things you used to, and daily tasks might seem overwhelming. Although the same factors cause depression in both sexes, boys and girls tend to react differently to the same problems. Boys often act out in many cases, through violence, substance abuse, or getting into other kinds of trouble. Girls tend to become sad and withdraw socially, emotionally, or both. Each person will have a different combination of symptoms."

We see people who are depressed and have no actual skills to help them. Anybody can be depressed: children (it's so sad to see them like that-no pun intended), teenagers, new moms, adults and the aging.

Another excerpt from the same article:
"When people told Melissa to snap out of it, it only made her feel worse. She would try but would still wake up the next day feeling awful. ‘I didn’t even realize I was depressed,’ she says, ‘I didn’t even think to turn to my Heavenly Father for help.’ She also didn’t want to talk to her mom about what she was feeling. ‘But once I talked to her she was really supportive, and I needed that.’

 When Melissa was 14, her mom took her to a doctor. ‘At first I thought, No way! I don’t need a counselor. I’m fine! But I guess I wasn’t fine. When you’re depressed you don’t really realize there’s something wrong with you. And when you finally do recognize it, you’re so immune to it that it’s hard to deal with.’
Melissa has been in counseling for more than a year, and she looks forward to her once-a-week therapy sessions now. She’s glad she decided to get help. ‘I didn’t think I would ever need help. After a while I finally realized I needed to get down on my knees and ask for help. And that help came. I turned to my scriptures more often, and there would always be something there I needed to hear.”

With charity in our hearts and actions, even if we’re not qualified to aid someone with depression, we should still be able to be of help.

As always we welcome your comments.

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28 March 2011

Personal Touch

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In today's Personal Touch interview Rebecca Cressman chats with Rebecca. Rebecca Talley is the mother of ten wildy-creative and multi-talented children. She and her husband, Del, live in rural CO with their family, a dog, cats, a spoiled horse, and a herd of goats. She is the author of a children's picture book, "Grasshopper Pie" (WindRiver 2003), and three novels, "Heaven Scent" (CFI 2008), "Altared Plans" (CFI 2009), and "The Upside of Down" (CFI 2011). She has also authored numerous magazine articles and stories for children. When she's not writing, Rebecca loves to date her husband, play with her kids, swim in the ocean, eat ice cream, and dance to disco music while she cleans the house.


Web: http://www.rebeccatalley.com/

As always, we welcome your comments.

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28 February 2011

Personal Touch

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In today's Personal Touch interview Rebecca Cressman chats with Michael and Melanie. Michael Flynn has just produced Midway to Heaven, a romantic comedy starring Melanie Nelson- who plays a wife that is lingering halfway between heaven and earth while her widower husband learns more about love and second chances. Michael Flynn started working in film in the early 1980’s. His first film is one of his most popular, Footloose. It was closely followed by a film that to this day is a family favorite, Savannah Smiles. Since then he has appeared in over 100 film and television shows and countless TV commercials and documentaries. Michael ventured into producing in 2004 with the ever popular The Best Two Years. Since then he has produced The Dance, Heber Holiday, Friends for Life and most recently Midway to Heaven, which he also directed. Melanie Nelson received her Bachelor of Arts degree from Southern Utah University and performed as a member of the Utah Shakespearean Festival acting company. She went on to receive her Master of Fine Arts degree from Southern Methodist University. Melanie is a founder and managing director of Pinnacle Acting Company, where she has performed in several roles, including Catherine in Proof. Film and television credits include Everwood: White on Rice; Hatching Pete; and The Return.
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There’s a whole genre in literature and movies dedicated exclusively to love and romance. Some of us enjoy reading these kinds of books or going to see the movies; some of us prefer other kind of books or movies. What are the opinions of our leaders about romantic love?

From Elder Bruce C. Hafen:

"The idea of romantic love, so commonplace that it is touched upon in virtually every popular book or movie or magazine, is also at the very center of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

As Elder Packer put it, 'Romantic love … is not only a part of life, but literally a dominating influence of it. It is deeply and significantly religious. There is no abundant life without it. Indeed, the highest degree of the Celestial Kingdom is unobtainable in the absence of it.' (Eternal Love, p. 4.)"
Sister Susan Tanner has said:

"Friendship, then, should form the foundation of romantic love—the love that leads to courtship and marriage. Likewise, both friendship and romantic love can become what God intends them to be only when they are founded on charity, “the pure love of Christ” (Moro. 7:47). As we learn in Moroni and 1 Corinthians, charity is patient, long-suffering, kind, free from envy, and unselfish. Charity leads couples to rejoice in truth, to believe, to hope, and to endure. Couples whose love is based on charity want the best for each other. Their love is infused with the pure love of Christ."

As always, we welcome your comments.

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24 January 2011

Personal Touch

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In today's Personal Touch interview, Rebecca Cressman talks to Jessie Funk, who has shared her inspiring message and love of music around the world. She has released five solo albums, toured 36 states with the Broadway musical “Footloose,” opened for Donny Osmond, and toured with Broadway sensation Maureen McGovern. Jessie has also published four books entitled, “Calling All Angels,” “The Boredom Box,” “Forget the Chicken Soup, Where’s the Chocolate?” and “Emergency Preparedness for Kids.” She has also been a professional speaker for seven years, teaching and inspiring through her message of gratitude, celebrating life and defining your passions and purpose. One of Jessie’s true passions is empowering women and teenage girls to celebrate ladyhood and embrace their radiance. She is so passionate about this cause that she has started an organization called “The Ivy Foundation,” whose sole purpose is to provide workshops, life-coaching and resources to help ladies of all ages discover their limitless potential. Jessie’s favorite role in life is that of mother to three adorable kids and wife to hit songwriter/producer, Jim Funk.
Web: http://www.ivygirlacademy.com/

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From the March 2010 New Era Magazine, pg. 18
 Sister Susan W Tanner (former Young Women General President) wrote this article that appeared in the Ensign a few years ago. She’s talking about the fact that most girls when asked about their plans for the future, comment on education or other endeavors. Very few express the desire to be mothers.

“Homemaking skills are becoming a lost art. I worry about this. When we lose the homemakers in a society, we create an emotional homelessness much like street homelessness, with similar problems of despair, drugs, immorality, and lack of self-worth. In a publication called The Family in America, Bryce Christensen writes that the number of homeless people on the street 'does not begin to reveal the scope of homelessness in America. For since when did the word home signify merely physical shelter, or homelessness merely the lack of such shelter? … Home [signifies] not only shelter, but also emotional commitment, security, and belonging. Home has connoted not just a necessary roof and warm radiator, but a place sanctified by the abiding ties of wedlock, parenthood, and family obligation; a place demanding sacrifice and devotion, but promising loving care and warm acceptance.'
     
  “So we must teach homemaking skills, including practical ones such as cooking, sewing,   budgeting, and beautifying. We must let young women know that homemaking skills are honorable and can help them spiritually as well as temporally. Making a home appealing physically will encourage loved ones to want to be there and will help create the kind of atmosphere that is conducive to the Spirit.” Source: here.
I think we’re not teaching our children the same way we were taught by our parents. If something doesn’t get done, it’s easier for mom or dad to pick up the slack, rather than have a bit of discord in the family.

I believe that homes or institutions that are teaching our young women how valuable they are to society, as mothers and creators, are not only important but necessary.

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27 December 2010

Personal Touch

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This month Personal Touch celebrates Christmas with a special series on the Life and Miracles of Jesus Christ. Throughout December we’ve explored the miracle of the Savior's Birth, the powerful lessons of the Savior's childhood, and the Miracles of Christ’s ministry.
This week, we turn to award-winning singer/songwriter Hilary Weeks for reflections on the Everlasting Christ. She and artist Simon Dewey co-authored He Lives, a book of music, art, and text that celebrates the Atonement and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Hilary has published two other books and released 6 albums earning 6 different Pearl Awards from the Faith Centered Music Association including Inspirational Album of the Year, Female Vocalist of the Year, and Songwriter of the Year. With inspiring lyrics and a voice audiences have come to love and depend upon, she shares her heart and the insight drawn from everyday life. In addition to her solo releases Hilary has been featured on an extensive list of compilation albums, but for every achievement, she credits the great love of Jesus Christ. And in spite of all the accolades and success, her most beloved moments are those spent with her family. Hilary, her husband Tim, and their four daughters live in Utah.

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One of the articles we’re featuring today got me thinking about regrets. The article is about going back in time and giving your younger self some advice. Even when the writer is talking about advice from an author’s point of view, I thought of it in a broader scale.

I thought: would I want to go back and change some of the things that I’ve done? Would I tell myself to go in this direction instead of the other one taken? Would I do things differently? Or would I stick it out and stay in the road I’d chosen?

I came to the conclusion that, even with all the emotional pain that I may have gone through at times, I wouldn’t change my life. I realized that from the deepest sorrows that I’ve felt in life, I have learned the greatest lessons, and I don’t want to lose them.

I took inventory and realized that I have a wonderful family, a husband that wants to provide for us, children that want to do what’s right, and a home that’s getting a face lift even as I write this. I have improved my talents in ways that no one but me (and my husband) can tell. I have made mistakes, plenty, but that’s between the Savior and I, and I’m fine with that.

What about you? What would you do? Please share your thoughts with us.

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22 November 2010

Personal Touch

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Today in our Personal Touch with Rebecca Cressman segment we have a treat for everyone. Rebecca interviews Kelsey Nixon, who got her start in the food media industry when she created Kelsey’s Kitchen, a college cooking show at Brigham Young University, emphasizing fast, fun and affordable meals. After graduating with a degree in Broadcast Journalism, she attended Le Cordon Bleu – Hollywood, where she earned her professional culinary arts degree. This degree, paired with training from the French Culinary Institute in New York City provided opportunities at Martha Stewart Living and on Food Network’s “Semi-Homemade Cooking with Sandra Lee.” In 2008, she was a contestant on The Next Food Network Star, where she was voted ‘fan favorite,’ and went on to star in the Food2 web series Kelsey and Spike Cook, with Spike Mendelsohn. Kelsey’s passion for the essentials in the kitchen has taken her one step further and she now hosts her own show on the Cooking Channel. In Kelsey’s Essentials, Kelsey inspires a new generation of food lovers with her own fresh take on essential cooking basics. She gives her savvy tips on must-have pantry items, the latest gadgets and essential kitchen techniques – from roasting to baking. Kelsey’s passion is creating recipes that target the beginning cook – breaking down the basics, teaching proper technique and making everyone feel comfortable in the kitchen. Kelsey lives in New York City with her husband Robby where she spends her days developing recipes and cooking up a storm.


I just watched Kelsey’s show, the one where she gives essentials on how to roast a chicken, veggies and fruit, and it was such a breath of fresh air, because it’s exactly that: showing the essentials, and how to do it. Now I have more ideas on how to prepare a turkey, because I figure it’s almost the same.

Kelsey sent us a few of her favorite recipes, and we’re putting them here for you to enjoy.

ROASTED ROSEMARY TURKEY BREAST

Yield: 6 servings

One 6-pound fresh turkey breast, on the bone, rinsed and patted dry

¼ cup unsalted butter, softened

4 cloves garlic, minced

1 teaspoons orange zest

2 tablespoons fresh rosemary leaves, chopped

1 tablespoon fresh sage, chopped

2 ½ teaspoons dry mustard

salt and cracked black pepper

2 stalks celery, cut into 2 inch pieces

2 small carrots, peeled and cut into 2-inch pieces

2 small onions, peeled and quartered

Preheat the oven to 325 degrees F.

In a small bowl, combine the softened butter, garlic, and orange zest, rosemary, dried mustard and salt and pepper.

Carefully lift the skin from the meat and rub half of the seasoned butter directly on the turkey breast. Rub the rest of the seasoned butter on the skin. Season generously with salt and pepper.

Scatter the vegetables on the bottom of a roasting pan just large enough to hold the turkey. Set the meat breast-side up in the pan. Roast for about 2 hours or until an instant read thermometer inserted into the thickest part of the breast registers 160 degrees F. Transfer the turkey to a cutting board and tent loosely with foil for 20 minutes. (The breast temperature will continue to rise as it rests.)

Carve the breast and serve with the pan juices. Reserve leftovers for oven roasted turkey sandwiches.



SPICED APPLE & PEAR RUSTIC PIE

Yield: 6 servings

1 ½ cups (1/2 lb.) granny smith apples, peeled, and sliced into wedges

1 ½ cups (1/2 lb.) bosc pears, peeled, and sliced into wedges

2 tablespoons flour

1 tablespoon lemon juice

1 teaspoon ground cinnamon

¼ teaspoon ground nutmeg

½ cup brown sugar

1 recipe perfect pie dough

1 tablespoon cold unsalted butter, cut into pieces

1 large egg, lightly beaten

2 teaspoons sugar (turbinado preferred)

vanilla bean ice cream or fresh whipped cream, garnish

Preheat oven to 400 degrees F. Line a large baking sheet with parchment paper or foil.

Stir together apples, pears, flour, lemon juice, cinnamon, nutmeg, and sugar in a large bowl until combined.

On a well-floured surface, roll out dough into a large circle, about 12-14 inches.

Move rolled out dough to prepared baking sheet. Make sure dough is chilled.

Spoon fruit mixture onto the center of the dough leaving a 1 inch border. Fold the edges of the dough over the fruit, pleating dough, then dot the fruit filling with butter pieces. Lightly brush dough with egg wash and sprinkle with 2 teaspoons sugar.

Bake until crust is golden brown and filling is bubbling, 25 to 30 minutes. Cover if crust browns too quickly. Cool.

Serve warm with vanilla bean ice cream or alongside fresh whipped cream.

*NOTE: same recipe can be made in individual serving sizes.



RAPID ROLLS

Yield: 24 dinner rolls

3 packets active dry yeast

1 ¾ cups warm water

½ cup honey

½ cup melted butter

½ tablespoon salt

2 large eggs, beaten

approximately 6-7 cups flour

melted butter

Preheat oven to 400 degrees F.

In the bowl of a mixer, combine instant yeast and warm water. Let activate for 5 minutes until bubbly. Stir in honey.

On low speed with the paddle attachment, add butter, salt, and eggs. Slowly add flour by the cup until fully incorporated and dough pulls away from the sides of the mixing bowl. Add more flour if too sticky.

Portion into 24 even servings. Form rolls into desired shape and let rise approximately 20 minutes or until doubled in size. Brush with melted butter.

Bake for 25 minutes until tops are golden brown. Remove from oven and brush with melted butter.

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27 October 2010

Making Prudent Choices

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 Our guest contributor Russ Beck wrote his article “Overcoming Pornography.” He wrote a prior article on the subject entitled “Something Wicked This Way Comes,” and now he is trying to point out ways to overcome this vice. He comments: “Have you ever tried to lose weight? I know that when I decide to lose a few pounds, I immediately start to fixate upon food. The moment I decide to force my will and overcome eating, I find I can think of nothing else.” He compares this with the first stages of dealing with an addiction, and then he goes on to tell us how to overcome it. Russ blogs at On the Couch, he’s also a licensed, professional counselor with a Master's degree from the University of Wyoming.


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 Do you have teens at home, and think that the cost of raising them is very high? Then read this article from 11th Heaven Homemaking Haven, where contributor Jen wrote her article “Teenagers and a Clothing Allowance.” She says: “I'd like to share one way I save money and teach valuable lessons when it comes to teenagers and clothing.” Who doesn’t want advice in this area?


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 Have friends from another country, or living in another country? Learn how people in other countries do their gift giving. This article comes from Pocket Cultures and Arwa is the contributor. She says: “International gift giving can be a confusing and complex process. This gift etiquette guide can help you successfully navigate the art of gift giving.”  A must-read since the holiday gift-giving is almost upon us.

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27 September 2010

Personal Touch

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In our Personal Touch with Rebecca Cressman segment, she interviews Mark Chamberlain, Ph.D. Mark is a psychologist and clinical director of the ARCH, Addiction Resource Center for Healing, in South Jordan and Clearfield, Utah. He’s authored or coauthored several books, including Willpower Is Not Enough: Why We Don't Succeed at Change, Confronting Pornography, and Wanting More: The Challenge of Enjoyment in the Age of Addiction. Mark’s new book, Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity (with Geoff Steurer) will be published in 2011.



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 Russ Beck has written his article “Something Wicked This Way Comes,” and posted it in his blog On the Couch. He mentions the tale of the fox and the bird, the one where the fox got a feather from the bird one at a time, until the bird couldn’t fly away. He compares that behavior to an evil habit that some people participate in: pornography. Russ Beck is a licensed, professional counselor with a Master's degree from the University of Wyoming. He's been involved in the mental health field for the past twenty-three years as a therapist and administrator.


At LDS Media Talk, Larry Richman gives us "Resources in Overcoming Pornography." He says: "Some of the resources listed can help individuals overcome a problem with pornography. Others are organizations who help in the fight against the continuing expansion of the availability of pornography." Please, check them out, they may be of help to someone you know.


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Our last article, “Drawing Together When Pornography Threatens to Tear Apart Your Marriage,” was co-written by Mark Chamberlain, PhD, and Rebecca Jorgensen, PhD, for Combating Pornography. They make you realize that there are victims when people decide to go this route, and others get hurt: family, friends, they don’t matter, only the desire to go on. They explain to us the feelings that couples go through when they come in for counseling, and what are the ways that seem to help couples work more productively together.


If you have any comments or concerns about this issue, send us a line. If you know of someone who needs help, we hope that we have given you plenty of resources to get in touch with.


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23 August 2010

Personal Touch

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In our Personal Touch with Rebecca Cressman segment, she interviews Tyler and Marie Ricks. Tyler M Ricks graduated from American Fork High School in 2004 as Valedictorian. He had obtained a 3.989 GPA and was president of the school’s Chess Club, Math Club, and LD debate team. During his school career, Tyler also passed nine AP (Advanced Placement) tests in U.S. history, physics, macroeconomics, calculus, English literature, microeconomics, statistics, biology, and art history. He received a 34 on the ACT. Marie Ricks is Tyler’s mother and a nationally recognized author, TV/radio guest, and motivational speaker. Marie teaches organization principles in personal, professional, and community settings. This year, Tyler and his mother, Marie combined their skills and co-authored the book “Be Successful in School- A Student’s Guide for Junior High and High School” with ideas, strategies, and encouragement to help every teen succeed in the classroom.




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Today is the day: back to school in this part of the woods. We’re all excited about the new school year and have great expectations about what’s coming. Are our children excited, afraid, nervous, stressed out, or all of the above? Our contributor Russ Beck, from ‘On the Couch,’ comments on all the feelings our kids might be going through. He says: “Being so far removed from the rigors of attending school, you would think it would play a small role in my life but that is not the case. During times of stress I still dream about being late for a class and running around the halls trying to find the right classroom. This is just one indication of the impact school years can have on an individual.” Russ Beck is a licensed, professional counselor with a Master's degree from the University of Wyoming. He's been involved in doing family counseling for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints for ten years. In his spare time, Russ writes fiction, non-fiction, and is an award winning photographer.



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In our Primary today, the members of the Bishopric came and did Sharing Time. Their theme was ‘Father’s Blessing,’ and they encouraged the children to ask their fathers, grandfathers, uncles or home teachers to give them one tonight, just before school starts. With this topic in mind, I introduce the talk “Priesthood, Keys, and the Power to Bless,” given by Elder Merrill J. Bateman, and published in the Liahona in November, 2003. In it, he talks about the importance of a Priesthood blessing, and shares with us a touching family experience that’s relatable to our times.



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Do you have some family traditions that you keep going at the start of every year? At our house it is the father’s blessing on the Sunday before school starts, and then on the day, I go with the kids to school and take pictures of them and their teachers – this one only applies to elementary though, because when my boy made it to Junior high he made it clear that I wasn’t allowed there with him. In any case, Lolli is a guest at ‘Modern Molly Mormon,’ but she has her own blog at ‘Better in Bulk.’ She comments on her tradition of taking pictures of her kids, especially with their backpacks on. I think it’s a cute idea. I remember doing that with my kids, and later scrapbooking a page around the backpack theme (Star Wars or Disney princesses).

 
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19 July 2010

Personal Touch

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In our Personal Touch with Rebecca Cressman segment, she interviews Sheralyn
Pratt. Sheralyn Pratt graduated from the University of Utah in Communications. She's best known for creating the private investigator book series featuring the young, fearless, and slightly impulsive California character, Rhea Jensen. Sheralyn has published 3 novels, 1 e-book, and even produced 2 screenplays. She also enjoys adventures. She served a mission for the LDS Church in Budapest, Hungary, and enjoys traveling and living in new places (Maui is her favorite so far). When she isn't writing, she enjoys hiking with her dog and learning new skills. She has been a karate instructor, a musical theater performer, and is currently a publicist. Visit her at http://www.sheralynpratt.com/, to learn more about her books.



Our first article comes from Russ Beck, who blogs at ‘On the Couch… by Russ Beck.’ His article is aptly named “Five Tips to Strengthen Your Marriage”; in it, he says: “What …is a couple to do living in a world where divorce is becoming so widely accepted? How are they to find joy and happiness?” We should listen (or read) Russ’ counsel, since he is a licensed, professional counselor with a Master's degree from the University of Wyoming, and has been doing family counseling for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints for ten years.



Next, we have Paul, who blogs at ‘A Latter-day Voice.’ His article is “Working Celestial Marriage” and it’s a smart, well put together piece. He opines: “Mormons talk about "saving ordinances," meaning ordinances that we believe are required to return to our Father in Heaven's presence. The final of these is the sealing ordinance in which a man and woman can be sealed together in the temple for time and all eternity. … It seems that the sealing ordinance is just the start, just as baptism is the gate by which we enter a path back to God. Said another way: a temple wedding does not by itself a celestial marriage make.” How many of us really, truly think that we’ve made it to the Celestial kingdom just because we married in the temple? Food for thought.


Last, we have this article from Carolyn who blogs at ‘Fruit of the Carolyn.’ Her article is “Taillights and Falling in Love”, and it’s a sweet, loving tribute to a husband. How many people out there would just come out and say “I still love my spouse”? Carolyn is following her husband on their drive home, and she says: “I followed. I let my mind wander as I fixed my gaze on his taillights and followed him all the way home.
"It hit me like a wave of warm water, familiar and joyful. How following someone you love unconditionally can bring peace, rest, and quiet revelation.”


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28 June 2010

Personal Touch

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Addiction (def): compulsive need for and use of a habit-forming substance (as heroin, nicotine, or alcohol) characterized by tolerance and by well-defined physiological symptoms upon withdrawal; broadly persistent compulsive use of a substance known by the user to be harmful.
Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary copyright © 2009 by Merriam-Webster, incorporated



Today, in our Personal Touch with Rebecca Cressman segment, she interviews Tom Foster. Tom Foster is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who has been in private practice since 1983. He is a graduate of the University of Utah's Master of Social Work Program and has a drug and alcohol treatment certification form from the same institution. Mr. Foster is on the board of directors of the Utah Chapter of the National Association on Mental Illness, the Salt Lake City Mayor's Coalition, and the Utah Support Advocates for Recovery Awareness (USARA). He is on the advisory board of the Callister Foundation and works as a consultant for the Foundation developing a website, Hopetoday.com, that provides timely information about the disease of addiction. There are six videos on the site that provide information about various aspects of addition and treatment. The Foundation also has an Information Line (801- 366-HOPE or 866-633-HOPE toll free) where individuals can call for information.



Our first article was contributed by Russ Beck. Russ is not only a licensed, professional counselor with a Master's degree from the University of Wyoming, he’s also a therapist, administrator and family counselor. He blogs at “On the Couch by Russ Beck.” The title to his article is “Avoiding Addiction Triggers”, and he presents his point well and then goes on to explain that we know about temptation, maybe we even toy with it. But do we go and ask someone (a loved one, or someone who’s qualified) to help us? Do we take the step of asking for help? We not only need to know what triggers our addictions, but also where to go get help. That is, if we want to get better.



Next, we have an article from MormonWomen.org. I really liked this page when I read it: the author showed guts, and the strength of her convictions. May we all be strong enough to stand up and say “I will conquer my addiction.” Janelle tells us that she knew what she wanted “What I really wanted was to sleep because my baby had already nursed and was sleeping soundly in a bassinet next to me.” She also reasoned with herself “Surely it wouldn’t be too bad to use a medication prescribed by my doctor to help me get some much needed rest.” Do we realize were our weaknesses are and move on to a safer place, or allow ourselves to fall prey to our own desires?



President James E. Faust has said: “Each one of us has been given the power to change his or her life. As part of the Lord’s great plan of happiness, we have individual agency to make decisions. We can decide to do better and to be better. In some ways all of us need to change. ...

“Another kind of change I wish to address is recovery from enslaving habits. They include disorders associated with alcohol, drugs, tobacco, eating, gambling, unworthy sexual behavior, and viewing pornography.” (The Power to Change, Liahona, Nov. 2007)

The Church has put together a web page, to help all of those that are “in the gall of bitterness.” It is the “Addiction Recovery Program” and this is our last entry on today’s newsletter.

We hope that what we presented to you today was what you, or someone you know needs. It’s been said ‘nobody’s perfect.’ However, even though perfection is not achievable in this life, we can, and should look to live a ‘good’ life and enjoy what the good Lord has given us.

May you have a good week, and hope to hear from you.

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17 May 2010

Personal Touch



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In today’s Personal Touch, Rebecca Cressman interviews Tracey Christensen, from the Now I Can Foundation. Tracey Christensen is a wife and mother of three children, including a child that was born with Cerebral Palsy. After years of doing traditional physical therapy, Tracey and her husband, Joel, took their daughter to Poland for an intensive month of physical therapy. A year later, the Christensen's brought the intensive model of therapy to Utah with the Now I Can Foundation. Now I Can is a non-profit physical therapy center in Provo, Utah dedicated to helping disabled children reach their physical goals and become more confident and independent. Listen to the interview to learn more about this great foundation.




Our contributor Russ Beck has sent this article to us. Russ Beck is a licensed, professional counselor with a Master's degree from the University of Wyoming. He also blogs at “On the Couch … by Russ Beck.” In this article “Am I Addicted to My Addictions?”, he tells us what an addiction is and how it is treated. However, as of late, something has changed. He says: “It seems there is no end to the number or types of addictions.” Are we trying to blame our behaviors on our actions, rather than recognize our own problems or are we just shirking responsibility all together? You be the judge.



Paul, from “A Latter-day Voice” talks to us about twelve step programs in “One Day at a Time.” He says: “Twelve step programs like AA use the phrase "One Day at a Time" to remind their participants that change comes in small bits. Contrast that to our gospel perspective. So much of what we do in the church has a very long time horizon. "Eternity is a long time," my old stake president used to say. And yet, I think we have something to learn from One Day at a Time.”



Our last article comes from Lia McClanahan, from the Church magazines, who wrote “Addiction Recovery.” In her words: “A year ago Mark (names have been changed) didn’t know how he would overcome his addiction to drugs and alcohol. He had already tried to quit. He had visited with his bishop, been to professional counselors, gone through rehabilitation centers, and exerted all the willpower he could, but nothing brought permanent change. Soon after that critical moment in Illinois, he found the Church’s 12-step addiction recovery program, sponsored by LDS Family Services. In the program, he found the principles and direction that would change his life.”


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26 April 2010

Accepting Changes

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‘Change’ is defined as:
“To cause to be different – to transform - to give and receive reciprocally - to exchange for or replace with another, usually of the same kind or category - to go from one phase to another - to put on other clothing - A transformation or transition from one state, condition, or phase to another.” (From thefreedictionary.com)


As people, we sometimes find ourselves afraid of change. We don’t want it, don’t welcome it, we avoid it at all costs. However, at other times, we are ready for a change, or at least we want to make a change in our surroundings in particular, or our lives in general. I guess we can accept it as long as it's on our own terms.


Russ Beck, a friend and contributor, is a licensed professional counselor with a Master's degree from the University of Wyoming, who has been involved in the mental health field and does family counseling, finds time to keep a blog going, “On the Couch… by Russ Beck”. In this particular article “Musings on Change”, he mentions a personal experience early in his life that taught him that we need to ‘transition’ to be able to accept change.


Talk about changes! Melissa Young, a contributor to Segullah.com, muses about the changes in her life that she can clearly see in her hands. We can all see the passage of time, the changes that time brings and we can’t escape. She says: “I have an image in my memory of my mother’s hands, her fingers curved with tiny newborn fingers gripping onto them. She is sitting on the worn hospital couch next to my oldest son, their heads bent together, cradling our new baby girl. “What do you think she will do with these hands?” she whispers to him. “Will she make cookies or bread? Draw pictures?”


And then there are the changes that we can make to our surroundings. They can be good and welcomed, or not. This article "Greening our lifestyle" from the website FindingBonggamom,  focuses on small and easy changes we can make to reduce our carbon footprint. What is that, you say? Well, let me give you a definition: “The total amount of greenhouse gases produced to directly and indirectly support human activities, usually expressed in equivalent tons of carbon dioxide (CO2).” (From timeforchange.org)


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22 March 2010

Have Hope to Overcome


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Today's topic brings the most sober part of us outward. It’s not an easy burden to have a personality disorder, or know of someone who does.


Our contributor, Russ Beck, talks about one of these disorders in his blog On the Couch… by Russ Beck. The article is “Borderline Personality Disorder”, and Russ’ report is very analytical, the account precise; he goes from a case study, to the analysis, and ends with a real life application. And makes all of it simple for us to understand.


We continue with a video from Mormon Messages. I wanted to bridge the two reports we have this Monday with this message, parts of which were taken from a talk given by President Dieter F. Uchtdorf in General Conference (October 2008). President Uchtdorf’s talk is “The Infinite Power of Hope”. Please watch this video that will touch your heart, and you’ll know that what he says is true.


Our last article touches on Bipolar Disorder. You can find this article in KidsHealth.org. It gives a clear account of what the disorder is, what the symptoms are, how it affects people, the diagnosis, treatment and how to deal with someone who has the disorder. It is very informative.


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05 March 2010

Forgiveness Repentance Charity

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How easy is it to forgive someone who's hurt us? And, is forgiveness the same as trust? According to Russ Beck, in his article "Forgiveness and Trust", they're not at all the same. He says: "It is easy to get the concepts of forgiveness and trust confused. Many people believe they are the same, when in reality they are completely separate." Come in and read about it.

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Also, can repentance and forgiveness strenghten a marriage? In January of this year, Rick Miller spoke to students at BYU, and said: "As individuals are quick to repent and quick to forgive, marriages are strengthened", but he added that "the principles of repentance and forgiveness apply to all relationships." Read about his talk as reported by Marianne Holman for the Church News.

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Tricia Krietzberg, from BellaOnline, shares her ideas about President Lincoln, saying: "Abraham Lincoln was a great man, a great hero, a great leader to admire, respect and to learn from. ... And here’s a quality that we don’t hear often about: Lincoln was incredibly charitable." Shouldn't we know more about the great men that forged our nation?

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